See and be seen. The social network provides an excellent setting to do just this. See everyone at the same time we see the best way possible to be more grandiose than life, with beautiful pictures, be praised, to be courted, strong interest that may hide a real need: be united, however, to understand the essence of the connection between us, we must know its root. Imagine that at a time, we were all together in one system, a kind of body composed of countless cells were maintained in an ongoing relationship and mutual. At one point in the process of creating reality as we know it today, this body is fragmented into many parts. With the break we lost that sense of mutual respect between us creating within us, among other things, a sense of emptiness that he has done that since then we are looking for substitutes to that sense of wholeness that once experienced.
In fact, social systems we have created, at its root, unconsciously seeking to restore that lost relationship. That old memory that brings us back to our roots The main protagonist, responsible for the separation between different parts of the system, the ego, which took the center stage in recent centuries has been increasing gradually its power. Nowadays, the ego is reaching a new record and it seems that beside the impressive development that leads us, is digging a deep chasm in our hearts, carefully destroying all types of warm human relationships that we had. The ego makes us feel that we depend on others to meet our needs, drives us to abuse them and use them, but when others fail to benefit, the move away from our life without looking back. In other words, we can not stand the fact that we need from others, forcing us to stand united against our will. This union is pushing us and we even anguish. Therefore, we seek ways to resist and refuse this connection that envelops us all together and they will anyway have to come back eventually. How to achieve a real connection and gratifying is the second part of this article will be released soon